STOP RACING, START LISTENING
Author. Speaker. Sustainable Performance Advocate.
“Running Into Me: How I Stopped Racing and Found Myself” is a memoir by Phyllis Strand that blends distance running with personal growth. It uses the arc of her running life—training, racing, injury, and recalibration—as a frame for examining identity, ambition, and self-acceptance beyond finish lines and PRs.
Running Into Me: How I Stopped Racing and Found Myself is more than a memoir about running. It is a reflection on what happens when the drive that once fueled success begins to cost more than it gives back. Using her experiences as a runner, Phyllis Strand explores the tension between achievement and well-being, ambition and self-acceptance, and the challenge of redefining yourself when an identity you once relied on no longer fits. Rather than offering simple answers, the book sits honestly in the uncomfortable space between who we have been and who we are becoming. It speaks to anyone who has spent years chasing the next goal, carrying the expectations of others, or measuring their worth by what they accomplish. Written with warmth, candor, and insight, Running Into Me is for readers navigating change, burnout, reinvention, or simply the quiet realization that there may be another way forward. Whether you are a runner, a former runner, or someone who has spent a lifetime pushing yourself to keep going, this book offers an invitation to pause, listen more closely, and reconnect with what matters most.
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